Today, I heard someone say, “You work cleaning behinds,” and honestly, it’s not the first time. It’s a phrase that comes with a lot of judgment and eye rolls from people who don’t fully understand the work we do. And yet, I want to take a moment—not to defend, but to celebrate my job and the incredible responsibility it carries. Because yes, I’m proud to clean behinds. But that’s only the simplest way to describe a job that touches lives in profound ways every single day.
When I say I clean behinds, what I really mean is that I care for people. I trim nails that have grown too long to reach, wash hair that hasn’t been touched in days, dress and shower people who cannot do it themselves, feed those who cannot feed themselves, and make sure everyone I care for is treated with dignity, respect, and kindness. It’s a job that demands patience, empathy, and sometimes a strong stomach—but it’s also a job that can make the most incredible difference in someone’s life.
I’ve noticed how the term “cleaning behinds” is often tossed around with a negative tone, as if it diminishes the work I do. But here’s the thing: not everyone is suited for this line of work, and that’s perfectly okay. Some people couldn’t stand seeing a patient struggle to move, or managing the intimate details of daily care. Yet, society often places high respect on jobs that can involve deceit, profit, or office politics—roles where the impact on human life is indirect at best. Meanwhile, my work directly affects the quality of someone’s life, their comfort, and their dignity every single day.
It’s important to remember that most of us who do this work never expect to be on the receiving end. We hope we never have to rely on someone else to care for us in the most intimate, vulnerable ways. But if that day comes, I promise this: any of my colleagues or I will be there to help, ready to provide the same level of compassion, respect, and professionalism that we show every day. We will make that moment as comfortable and as dignified as possible, all while keeping the atmosphere light, caring, and filled with empathy.
Some may argue about what truly matters in nursing or caregiving, comparing salaries, prestige, or the level of education required. But here’s what I want everyone to understand: dismissing the phrase “cleaning behinds” is short-sighted. Life is unpredictable, and there may come a time when you, or someone you love, will depend on the very people you’re mocking. When that time comes, you’ll be grateful beyond words for someone willing to step into this role with a big heart and unwavering patience.
So yes, I clean behinds. But I also lift spirits, bring smiles, and give hope to people who feel helpless. I touch lives in ways that can never be measured in dollars or prestige. And I do it proudly, every single day, knowing that what I do matters more than most people could ever realize.
The next time you hear someone say, “I clean behinds,” I hope you hear it as it truly is: a declaration of courage, compassion, and dedication. A reminder that dignity is priceless, and that even the most unglamorous jobs can be the most important ones in the world.
