Sometimes, the most powerful reminders come not from grand speeches or sweeping movements—but from quiet, unwavering truths.
Yesterday, I came across something that stopped me in my tracks. It wasn’t a headline or a viral video—it was just a few lines, shared with grace and fire by a woman named Randi Bosin. It read:
“If you see a small girl wearing a bikini—mind your business.
If you see a big girl in a crop top—mind your business.
If you see a girl not wearing a bra—mind your business.
If a girl doesn’t fit your definition of ‘beautiful’—keep your toxic opinions to yourself.
Every body is beautiful. Every body deserves love.”
And just like that, it hit me: how often we judge what we do not understand. How easily we let criticism slip from our lips without knowing the stories behind the scars, the bravery behind the outfits, the self-love behind the stretch marks.
We live in a world where so many girls and women are taught to shrink—into silence, into shame, into standards made by someone else. But these words were a call to push back. A reminder that confidence is not a crime. That skinny and fat are not insults. That what someone wears—or doesn’t—isn’t an invitation for judgment, but a declaration of ownership over their own body.
And maybe that little girl in the bikini? She’s reclaiming joy.
The big girl in the crop top? She’s done apologizing for existing.
The woman without a bra? She’s choosing comfort over expectations.
None of them owe us an explanation.
They owe no one permission to be seen, to be happy, to take up space.
Randi’s message wasn’t just about fashion—it was about freedom. About letting go of the noise and learning to mind your business, especially when that business is someone else’s body.
So today, just in case you needed the reminder:
You are beautiful. Not “in spite of” your body—but because of it.
Wear what makes you feel alive. Be loud. Take up space. Live unapologetically.
And if you ever forget that you’re worthy, reread this story.
Or better yet—be the reason someone else remembers it.
