This morning broke me in a way I didn’t expect.
I’ve pulled a dead calf before — calm, focused, helping an older vet who didn’t have the strength. We used chains. We knew the calf was gone. I didn’t cry. I didn’t panic. I accepted it.
But today… was different.
Last Thursday, our vet came to check Big Mama and begin AI prep. She was palpated, CIDR inserted — everything routine. On Monday, I pulled the CIDR and gave her a shot. We were set to breed her tomorrow.
This morning, while feeding the Corrientes, I noticed something off: bloody, stringy discharge. She was restless. Not eating. At 8:45 a.m., she started pushing — standing.
My heart dropped.
I called the vet’s office — no vet, just a message taker. They said they’d call me back. They didn’t.
I messaged my husband, sent pictures and videos. “Something’s wrong.”
By 9:05, I saw her lie down, and then I heard it — that deep, painful, soul-ripping moo. Her water bag appeared.
I was alone.
The vet had just seen her last week. We had no clue she was pregnant. No signs. No prep. Just me in a dirty pen, watching it all unravel. I called my brother, Brett. “She’s aborting,” he said, “or in early labor.”
It made no sense. We were AI’ing her tomorrow.
Then I saw the hooves.
No chains. No gloves. No towels. No help. Just my bare hands and a panicking brain.
Big Mama lay down again. I grabbed the hooves, braced my feet, and pulled. Five, maybe ten minutes of this — legs out, then the tongue. The face was coming. I panicked — if she sucked it back in, the calf could suffocate.
I held on. She looked at me — not scared. Grateful. “Thank you, Mom,” her eyes seemed to say.
But then it got stuck.
I urged her to stand. She did. With a push from her and a final pull from me, the calf hit the ground. I cleared its nose, adjusted its body.
And it shook its head.
It was alive.
I collapsed in sobs. Everything — fear, relief, disbelief — crashed down on me. I wasn’t okay.
My husband sent help. Brett stayed on the phone. Heather came. I couldn’t stop crying.
Then the vet finally texted:
“If you hadn’t been there, neither Mama nor baby would have made it.”
I’ll never forget today.
Not for the terror. Not for the miracle.
But for the moment a calf was born not into a clean stall or a waiting team…
…but into my hands. 🐮❤️
