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The Elephant Who Loved Too Much.

There are loves in this world that are fierce.
Some that are loyal.
And then there are loves so gentle, so instinctive, so pure… that they feel like something sacred.

At Elephant Nature Park in Thailand, a place where wounded giants relearn trust, where broken elephants rediscover softness, one love story stands above the rest — the story of a nine-year-old elephant named Faa Mai and the woman she considers her world: Sangdeaun “Lek” Chailert, the founder of the sanctuary.

It is a bond that didn’t begin with fanfare or ceremony.

It began with a whisper.

Because the day Faa Mai was born — the very first elephant ever born free at the sanctuary — she didn’t cry or trumpet or stumble.
She reached her tiny trunk toward Lek, as if she already knew whose heartbeat she belonged to.

And in many ways… she was right.

The Muddy Hug That Told the World Everything

Faa Mai has always loved Lek with the same intensity a child loves a mother — with complete trust, complete adoration, and sometimes… overly dramatic protectiveness.

One afternoon, the herd was enjoying a mud bath, the kind elephants savor the way children savor summer rain. Faa Mai, covered in a glistening coat of brown, was happily rolling on her side, trunk flicking, tail swishing.

Until she noticed Lek.

Just a few steps away, Lek stood watching the herd — small compared to the giants around her, but somehow the calmest presence among them.

Faa Mai froze mid-roll.

Her ears perked.

Her eyes locked onto Lek like moonlight finding the ocean.

Then, with the determination of a child running into a parent’s arms, she rose and hurried toward her — bringing the mud with her.

Lek barely had time to laugh before a half-ton of affection wrapped her trunk around her waist and pressed a wet, muddy cheek against her.

A hug.
A messy, sloppy, heart-melting hug.

It was caught on video — Lek half laughing, half scolding, completely loved, while Faa Mai leaned in like she was returning home.

But the story didn’t end there.

When Lek walked toward the river to wash herself, Faa Mai followed close behind, her trunk brushing Lek’s back every few seconds — not to demand attention, but to check:

Are you safe?
Are you okay?
I’m right here.

At the riverbank, she guided Lek away from the deeper edge with her trunk and even her foot, as if Lek were the fragile one.

As if roles had reversed — the elephant now mothering the woman.

A Protector In Every Way

This wasn’t new.

Over the years, Faa Mai has adopted Lek with a tenderness that defies instinct. She sings to her — low, soothing rumbles the way mother elephants soothe newborn calves. She wraps her trunk around Lek when she senses fear or tension. She plays hide-and-seek with her, gently touching her shoulder with the tip of her trunk when she finds her.

Lek often says, “Faa Mai does not want to leave me even for a moment.”

And she isn’t exaggerating.

Where Lek walks, Faa Mai follows.
Where Lek sits, Faa Mai stands guard.
Where Lek plays, Faa Mai joins — carefully, lovingly, like someone who knows how easily humans break.

Faa Mai was born into freedom, born into safety, born into softness — a miracle in a world where so many elephants are born into chains. But she carries in her the strength of generations of suffering.

Her mother, Mae Bua Tong, was forced to haul tourists up mountains until her joints screamed in pain. Forced to walk until she bled. Forced to serve until she collapsed. She knew only labor, exhaustion, and fear. Until she was rescued and brought to ENP in 2005.

Faa Mai was her first child born without fear.

No hooks.
No chains.
No beatings.
No commands.

Just open fields, gentle hands, and lullabies sung by Lek.

Maybe that’s why Faa Mai protects her — because Faa Mai knows, in her own elephant way, that her life is a gift someone fought for.

And that someone was Lek.

She Isn’t the Only One Who Loves Like This

Faa Mai’s affection is extraordinary, but it isn’t isolated.

Elephants at ENP have learned, after years of trauma, to trust again.
And sometimes, they trust too fiercely.

Kham Lha, another young elephant, once saw Lek’s husband, Darrick, swimming in the river. She misunderstood the splashing as danger — and charged straight into the water, trunk flailing, ready to drag him to shore.

Not to attack.
To save.

Because when elephants love, they love with their whole being.

They remember every hand that was gentle…
and every one that wasn’t.

Why This Story Matters

Most elephants at the sanctuary were rescued from brutal tourism labor — trekking, logging, street begging. Many arrived with scars, broken hips, shattered spirits. They had been treated as tools, not lives.

But at ENP, they rediscover something ancient:

Family.
Choice.
Freedom.
Love.

Love so big it can lift a human off the ground.
Love so protective it follows you across the field.
Love so innocent it wraps itself in mud and calls it a hug.

A Love the World Needed to See

The video of Faa Mai nudging Lek, hugging her, guiding her, checking her safety with her trunk and even her foot, touched millions.

People laughed.
People cried.
People whispered, “How can an animal love like that?”

But it wasn’t an animal loving like a human.

It was an elephant loving the way elephants love — deeply, fiercely, forever.

Lek didn’t rescue Faa Mai.

They rescued each other.

And every day at Elephant Nature Park, that bond reminds the world of a truth we too easily forget:

The greatest love stories aren’t always between people.

Sometimes they are between a woman who chose to save suffering giants…
and an elephant who chose to love her back.

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